Thinking of Marriage? NoMarriage.com Will Help!
In America, men today are still clueless about the modern day marriage. This must change. Effectively, marriage is simply a relationship — with a legal document attached. It has nothing to do with religion — that’s all smokescreen to keep the cycle going. Men today need to understand that our society’s values today differ drastically from those 50 and 60 years ago.
Gone are the days of the “nuclear family”. Both men and women today are rarely interested in a long-term relationship — yet, thousands are married every week — and for what purpose? Marriage is a legal “safety net” — and it doesn’t benefit the man.
Any man who wishes to become engaged or married must rethink his decision. There are too many good and decent men today who are suffering at the hands of their wives. I know several of them. No human being should have to suffer or endure any pain simply because they love their mate. Love shouldn’t be about misery — but happiness. And there’s a lot of unhappy men out there, but most are trapped because of their “marriage”, commitments and children.
It is my belief that a relationship needn’t be recognized by anyone to be “official”. We must end the fairytale stories we’ve been told for eons and get back to basics: Marriage is yet another social construct and ideology. It does not make one love the other more. It does not make one more loyal, giving, etc. In fact, many people change after marriage — and almost immediately.
Overall, marriage in 2007 is just a bad idea. Web sites like NoMarriage.com and others point to the reasons why. There are too many horror stories. Too many good and decent men getting shafted by the legal system. Too many reasons to avoid it like the joke it is. Good luck.
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