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Mass Media’s Influence on Dating (and Why I Refuse to Participate)

Posted in Random by Ronald Lewis

While I haven’t dated over a hundred women in my twenty-eight years of living, I am keenly aware of the tragedy that dating has become. Let me be the first to tell you that humanity has constructed a monster of a social concept that is spiraling out of control (with no end of a solution in sight.) This monster wasn’t created by evolution, oh no, and anyone who says otherwise has been living under a rock.

The Monster Is Real

This monster was created by a myriad of influential people whose only mission in life is to control people. You see, as long as people are distracted from everything which matters, they can continue on their journey of global domination. The vehicle which has destroyed courtship, nuclear families and commitment lies squarely within the confinement of a “box” called “television”. Like cancer, it ravages and infiltrates the mind with poison, eventually overtaking most of the people who embrace it.

Television Has a Purpose


Is television bad?
Yes — Because most people are gullible enough to allow it to control their lives. Why are shows such as Desperate Housewives and networks such as MTV and BET so widely popular? Think about it. These are tools designed to make humanity self-destruct, just so a few people can continue their mission. Simple enough, right?

“Dating” Is Something Else

The thought of dating in 2008 makes me nauseous. Most men today are merely accessories, while most women now casually date for the fulfillment of feeling desired and sexy. Dating today must be called something else, because it’s not the same as say sixty years ago. There’s only a small percentage of the sexes today who are not impacted by this infestation of mass media — They are an exception to a grossly understated rule. They are the warriors who have resisted the temptation to join a mindless ritual of undermining the purpose of humanity, its morals and natural ability to nurture.

My observations (and reality) are based on years of analyzing pop culture, couples, interaction and more. No, I am not a scientist, just a free thinker with an uncommon view of life and people. I am often told that I must have more faith in people, yet how can I, when the world insists upon repeating the same tale?

The Dating Construct

Here’s how dating today is designed:

Mass media (TV, magazines, radio and CDs) –> Distortion (‘Detached’ sex, independence of monogamy, lack of family unit, etc.) –> Mind Control –> Mass Impact

There’s no denying the effect mass media has played on my generation and the one before. There is a reason for young men and womens’ rebellion of relationships, etc. Everything points to a very discouraging trend of the abolishment of family and moral standards. Or, is it merely the coming of who we really are as mammals? (Perhaps we were never intended to be monogamous, loving people — Just beings to breed and continue our existence.)

Numbed to Dating

Psychologically, I’ve become nearly numbed by my observations and experiences over the years. As a kid, pre-teen and teenager, I always had vivid images of being a father, partner and loving mate — Not any longer. The thought of a family hardly ever comes to mind and a relationship even more so. Subconsciously, I have become immune to the ideals I once had as a young man, for they are simply unrealistic given reality and my newfound knowledge.

Just Say ‘No’ to Fairy Tales

I do not believe in fairy tales, ladies and gentleman, and my life was filled with many. Through my own discovery, I’ve grown to realize that there’s no pie in the sky that awaits anyway. Love is merely pair bonding and monogamous relationships are simply another social construct to hide our real nature as animals — Concepts designed to simply keep people controlled.

The suppression of alertness is what hurts human beings most. Unfortunately, many people today believe more in fairy tales than freeing themselves with the real reality most choose to ignore.

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