Seeking Denver Women for Round Table Discussion on Dating
I have launched an effort locally here in Denver to host an open discussion on dating. My questionnaire leading up to this announcement has been a rousing success and I’m now ready to assemble a group of women for the round table.
I’ve been conducting a survey online that has been well received by the women of Denver. I must admit, I’m taken aback by the number of women who took the time to respond to the questions with great detail and insight. So…
…It’s time for round two of my experiment. I enjoy learning about people, hence my desire to assemble a group of women for a round table discussion. Why do this? I want to intimately learn about how women in Denver approach dating. I want to learn about your fears, issues, hesitations, disappointments, etc.
Why should I care about these things? I want to have a better understanding of modern day women, put to bed any assumptions that might be wrong and maybe inspire a few women to get on board to make dating better for everyone.
If you’re game, drop me a line and I’ll keep you updated about the first meeting. For the first meeting, I will be the only male present. Keep in mind that this isn’t about meeting a mate — It’s a journey to clarity and understanding that we’ll all benefit from going forward.
It’s my own personal mission to tear down the walls which separate men and women from realizing healthy interaction and fulfilling relationships.
Purpose of the round table
Reality: Our society is broken on many levels. For the first few sessions, I will guide the round table with a series of Q&A sessions designed around how women date, their issues, expectations, disappointments, etc. This is a new and unique approach to dating in that we have an open, non-threatening, informative and inspiring platform from which to learn and prosper.
I am incredibly excited about this development. The round table will feature a diverse set of women of all age groups, professions, etc. I am moving quickly to assemble the first meeting (which could occur by early December) so please contact me to add your name to the list!
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Poly Lifestyle Is Changing My View of ‘Traditional Relationships’
Last night, I was in the company of several people who are in polyamory relationships (more than one). Over the years, I struggled to understand the concept of the poly lifestyle and why people desired it. The people I met were an interesting bunch — They were, like myself, very “off-the-beaten-path” type of people. I found them all to be very intriguing individuals and I’m looking forward to our next meeting to learn more.
One thing to note about polyamorists and the poly lifestyle in general: Everything’s in the open. No one’s hiding their relationships or concealing things which would tarnish their lifestyle or relationship. Honesty is what separates this lifestyle from cheaters.
I must admit that I’m fascinated by the psychology which drives these polyamorists. As I explained to the group, I no longer believe that most human beings are naturally monogamous. My faith in the concept of monogamy has eroded over the years through the adulterous nature (psychological and physical) of friends, family, exes and strangers. Seeking to understand what drives people in traditional relationships to cheat, I’ve arrived at various conclusions over the years, and chief among them is what I’ve already mentioned: Human beings aren’t naturally monogamous!
Frankly, I’m not sure that I could deal with another woman cheating on me. It would most likely end up being a very ugly situation that I would later regret (although I’d like to believe that I could simply walk away without being filled with rage). To my knowledge, there’s only been one woman that cheated on me, and honestly, she was more than I could handle due to her repeat offenses.
So, based on personal experience and that of others, I’ve been alarmed enough to question the reality of human nature and how we truly function. By spending time with these individuals, I believe I’ll one step closer to better understanding the real nature of human desire and multiple relationships.
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